The Reconnection Journal
So many parents tell me the same thing: “I love my child, I just don’t know how to reach them anymore.” If that’s you, you’re not alone — and you’re not failing.
I created this journal to help you find the right words, understand the barriers between you both, and rebuild your relationship slowly and safely. It’s not a quick fix, but it gives you a real path forward — one small step at a time.
The Reconnection Journal is a 70-page guided workbook designed to help you understand yourself more deeply — so you can understand your child more clearly.
Inside you'll find:
- 10 deep communication prompts to help you understand yourself and your child more clearly and spark the conversations you've always wanted to have
- 30+ thoughtful reflection prompts to help you uncover your deepest hidden emotions, patterns, and reactions
- Examples of what to say in real parent-adult-child difficult conversations
- A roadmap for rebuilding trust at any level of distance
- Psychology-based explanations that make sense of your child's behavior
- Space to journal and process before reaching out
- Guidance on how to communicate without pressure, guilt, or arguments
- Tools for tracking small signs of progress
- Realistic advice written from the perspective of an adult child (me!) who rebuilt his own relationship with his parents
This is for you if...
- You feel the distance, tension, or silence with your child
- You want to understand yourself better before reaching out
- You want to avoid arguments, misunderstandings, or pressure
- You want practical ways to open the door, even if your child isn't ready to talk
- You dislike therapy jargon and therapy hasn't worked for you
- You want to reconnect slowly and respectfully, without manipulation
This is a digital PDF format, delivered instantly by email. It works on phones, tablets, computers, or can be printed for your preferred method of learning.
This is NOT for you if...
- You want instant results
- You are not open to self-reflection
- You expect guaranteed reconnection
- You want control tactics
This journal is not a guarantee that your child will suddenly change, call more, or heal overnight. It can’t erase the past, and it can’t make anyone forgive before they’re ready.
What it can do is help you understand yourself more deeply, communicate with more calm and clarity, and create conditions where reconnection is possible with your child— slowly, respectfully, without pressure.
Why it Works
- Based on principles of emotional safety and autonomy
- Grounded in real communication psychology
- Written from the perspective of an adult child who lived this
- Focused on small, consistent steps instead of unrealistic fixes
30-Day Peace-of-Mind Guarantee
This journal works when you actually use it. If you complete the first few sections and still feel it hasn’t brought you any clarity, confidence, or emotional relief, reach out within 30 days for a full refund. No hard feelings, no hoops to jump through.
Hear What Other Parents Have to Say
As a parent, it’s hard to admit when you don’t know how to fix things. Your perspective has given me clarity and comfort. For the first time in a long time, I feel like I have a path forward instead of just guilt and confusion.
Thank you for understanding what it is like being a parent; we did our best, without a manual, but everything we did was with unconditional love and we always put our children first. We may not have always got it right, for that we are sorry, and now feel the need to ask for forgiveness, for hurt we never knew we caused. We are abandoned parents. Our door is always open; our love is ever present.
Your videos have opened my eyes in ways I didn’t expect. I always thought I was doing my best, but you’ve helped me understand why my son pulls away sometimes. Thank you for helping me see things from his side without making me feel like a bad parent.
I am going through estrangement from my 38 year old daughter and my 16 year old granddaughter. It is awful, but your words help so much...thank you.
Parents try so hard to make sure their kids have it better than they did, but modern culture brainwashes kids to interpret it as controlling and that they need to cut off their parents to prove their independence. Family is supposed to "stick together" and look out for each other. True intentions are often twisted.
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